Man raises concerns over his wife’s unusual and passive-aggressive approach to communication in their marriage.
According to him, rather than addressing issues directly, his wife prefers to voice her frustrations during midnight prayers.
In a post shared online, the man recounted how his wife has repeatedly used prayer sessions to speak about his shortcomings and make indirect requests.
One such incident involved him returning home late at night under the influence of alcohol.
He explained that instead of confronting him about his behavior, his wife waited until her midnight prayers.
He said …
“Please keep me anonymous. I have a problem with my wife. When I do something wrong she doesn’t approach me directly. She waits for 12am and use her midnight prayer to air her grievances. The other day I came home in the AMs very drunk. Instead of being mad at me she waited for 12am. In her prayer she said something like “I pray for all men who leave their wives at home and go to drink the whole night to stop doing it.” I don’t know what she saw but in her last night prayer she said something like she prays for Mbali to stop sending other people’s husbands dirty pictures. Even when she wants me to buy her something she’ll say it indirectly during her prayer. I feel like one day she’ll cheat and say it during her midnight prayers. Isn’t it childish?”
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